“Just” Say No!

For years I started most emails with, “just”. “I just wanted to check you were still OK to deliver that document on Thursday”. “I just wanted to check you were OK to babysit next week” or whatever the situation was. Why? I had never given it much thought but one day I realised it sounded like I was seeking permission from the person I was communicating with. Why did I need to feel as though I were seeking permission? I think it was a combination of fear and a lack of confidence. I think I told myself I was being polite but if I was really honest with myself I often felt embarrassed and awkward. From that day I made a conscious effort to not do it. I even have a subtle shift in my body language when I think about it. I sit up more, I am more confident in my delivery. I hadn’t thought to share this thought until I read this article. It beautifully describes how I felt and explains a bit more about why we might behave in this way and how it can hold us back.

If you have any questions just send me an email.

www.thriveglobal.com/stories/14961-just-say-no

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“Just” Say No!

For years I started most emails with, “just”. “I just wanted to check you were still OK to deliver that document on Thursday”. “I just wanted to check you were OK to babysit next week” or whatever the situation was. Why? I had never given it much thought but one day I realised it sounded like I was seeking permission from the person I was communicating with. Why did I need to feel as though I were seeking permission? I think it was a combination of fear and a lack of confidence. I think I told myself I was being polite but if I was really honest with myself I often felt embarrassed and awkward. From that day I made a conscious effort to not do it. I even have a subtle shift in my body language when I think about it. I sit up more, I am more confident in my delivery. I hadn’t thought to share this thought until I read this article. It beautifully describes how I felt and explains a bit more about why we might behave in this way and how it can hold us back.

If you have any questions just send me an email.

www.thriveglobal.com/stories/14961-just-say-no

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2020-11-23T09:45:40+00:00

Ben Colbridge - International Sales & Customer Success Director

"Within the first session of working together, Lucy was able to unpick my scrambled thoughts and aspirations with the deftness of a surgeon, but the approach of a close, trusted friend. I still don't fully know how she did it, but Lucy was able to unlock my core values and drivers in a way that I have never been able to quantify or verbalise by myself. It was quite a revelation and the starting point that I was missing. She has been incredibly encouraging & supportive as my confidence has waxed and waned, has given me a top-up of pragmatism when needed and most importantly of all given me clarity when all I could see was fog. I recommend investing in time with Lucy as the benefits can be quick to present themselves and she will help you find direction that is both very personal and highly motivating."
"It is clear to me that our half years’ worth of work provided a quantum shift in the way I think, which has helped me understand the values that are important to me so enabling me to understand the route and direction in which I want to take next."

KB - Deputy Head Teacher and Educational Consultant

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2019-06-24T13:20:17+00:00

KB - Deputy Head Teacher and Educational Consultant

"It is clear to me that our half years’ worth of work provided a quantum shift in the way I think, which has helped me understand the values that are important to me so enabling me to understand the route and direction in which I want to take next."
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2019-06-24T13:15:32+00:00

Eley McAinsh - Writer, Editor, Producer.

"Lucy’s skills and knowledge, empathy and professionalism have completely won me over. Her ability to get to the heart of blocks and anxieties is almost uncanny"
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Emma - Marketing Manager

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2019-06-24T13:09:11+00:00

Emma - Marketing Manager

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2020-11-23T09:58:08+00:00

Andrew Hunt - Owner, Holiday Architects

"Lucy has been working with us for a year now, helping to build the skills and environment we need to operate a work culture that puts a lot of emphasis on taking personal responsibility for your own performance, whilst also requiring a strong team ethic. It's not an easy outcome to achieve and without Lucy's help we would really have struggled. But thanks to her, we've seen a lot of success: I can see that through the way that everyone really works for each other, but also in how individuals have developed and improved under her guidance. I know the team get an awful lot from her group and one-to-one sessions, and their feedback is extremely positive. For anyone looking to develop critical soft skills, emotional intelligence, and genuine team spirit, I would thoroughly recommend Lucy, she's been a key part of our achievements recently, and I hope we'll keep working together for some time to come."
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Sophy - Teacher

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2019-06-24T13:04:42+00:00

Sophy - Teacher

"I found it very helpful to be listened too and for my thought processes to be valued for what they were, which supported me in having the confidence to take on alternative ways of thinking or doing things."
"Lucy has been an incredible asset to TechPixies. Working with many of the women who did our Face to Face programme in Oxford, she helped them find their confidence and values in order to successfully return to work, change careers or start a business.

It was a pleasure working with Lucy and she was extremely organised and professional.."

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2019-06-24T13:10:17+00:00

Joy Foster - Techpixies Founder

"Lucy has been an incredible asset to TechPixies. Working with many of the women who did our Face to Face programme in Oxford, she helped them find their confidence and values in order to successfully return to work, change careers or start a business. It was a pleasure working with Lucy and she was extremely organised and professional.."
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2019-06-07T11:41:40+00:00

JA - Digital Marketeer

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2019-06-24T13:12:34+00:00

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2020-11-23T09:56:14+00:00

Beth Kirk - Social Media Marketing Trainer

"I had the pleasure of working with Lucy at TechPixies when we worked jointly on a Cohort of women moving through the Social Media Magic course. Lucy was excellent at facilitating the face to face group life coaching sessions and highly skilled at encouraging the women to visualise a change in their path and personal progress, which some women found very challenging but with her support they found possible. Lucy was a pleasure to work with, and I would have no hesitation in recommending her as a coach."
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2019-06-24T13:13:49+00:00

M.T, Oxfordshire

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2019-06-24T13:19:30+00:00

KB - Deputy Head Teacher and Educational Consultant

"Lucy has the insight to ask probing questions and get at the heart of the problem, at the same time maintaining the right balance of encouraging, listening and understanding. As a result, she has empowered me to make choices that align with my values and I will continue with the practices to stay attuned to what matters most to me in the present moment."
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2019-06-24T13:02:37+00:00

Sophy - Teacher

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2019-06-24T13:08:31+00:00

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2019-06-24T13:18:46+00:00

KB - Deputy Head Teacher and Educational Consultant

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2019-06-24T13:06:29+00:00

Sophy - Teacher

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Emma - Marketing Manager

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2019-06-24T13:07:49+00:00

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  • Wild Dog Design
  • Steppes Travel
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